I love this photo of my mom from years ago. Always smiling... she smiled more than anyone you ever met. I thought a lot about what I wanted to post about on the anniversary of her passing. I finally decided to tell you about two boxes.
My daughter Katy was entering her thesis year at RISD this time last year. She knew I was having a tough time going through the many boxes of memorabilia my Mom had stashed away, so she proposed a unique project that would allow her to share in the process. In fact it ultimately became part of her thesis. I sent an unopened box to her in Providence, and kept another box for myself. Then every day for two weeks, as we each explored the contents of our box, we chose an item and wrote about it on a web site she created, a tandem blog.
So, as if we were side by side in real life, we shared images, wrote our thoughts and impressions, then continued the conversation through comments on each others' posts.
It was really an amazing journey. My mom saved just about everything, and I mean everything. We never knew what we would find next...
Spanish castanets and fans, tons of old photos, sorority and Navy ephemera, my hand print in plaster!
Old art projects, greeting cards, newspaper clippings, menus, Disneyland ticket stubs, letters and postcards...
A disco ball Christmas ornament, books and music scores... mementos of many happy times.
Memories of a life well-lived. You could tell she truly loved absolutely every minute of it!
So thank you Katy for making this memory with me!
Cheers,
Jenny
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